Time To Focus On A Healthier Me

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In the past year I’ve taken hundreds (maybe even thousands) of photos of my children but, looking back at pictures from the past 365 days, I’m in a total of five pictures with my kids. Five. When we were on vacation this year I was taking a photo of my family and a woman asked me if I wanted to get in the picture with them and she’d take it and I heard myself saying “no thanks”. I had a chance to get in the photo and I turned it down. This same scenario has happened dozens of times.

I tend to avoid cameras, not because I don’t want pictures with my kids or the ability to look back at memories, but because I hate how I look when I look at photos of myself. The truth is that I’ve felt like that for a while. Ever since having children I’ve cringed when I’ve seen pictures of myself. I hate what I see when I look in the mirror and that feeling, along with being overweight, affects many aspects of my life. From not being able to go ziplining on vacation to holding myself back from doing things I want to do to not being able to hike with my kids at their Cub Scout camping trip, I need to get healthier before it’s too late. I want to be more active with my boys and be able to keep up with them but most of all I want to feel better about myself.

I realize my body is never going to get back to the way it used to be in college but I do know that I can be a lot healthier than I am now. With school starting soon it’s the perfect time to get started. I need to do this not only for my children but for myself. The first thing I had to do was tell myself that I AM WORTH IT and focus on making myself a priority. The other day I went out and got a haircut and a pedicure and then spent a couple hours shopping for new clothes for myself. I realized that sitting around in yoga pants and oversized t-shirts was never going to make me feel better about myself and just recently bought the first pairs of jean shorts I’ve owned since college. I’m realizing that it’s important to invest in myself.

The second thing I needed to do was set goals for myself. When setting goals, it’s always important to make them realistic. As much as I’d like to say I’m going to only eat fruits and vegetables and I’m going to workout for a couple hours every single day I know that is just not going to happen. If your goals are realistic there is a better chance of meeting them. Another thing to keep in mind when goal-setting is to make them measurable. Goals you can’t measure can never be achieved because you’ll never know when you meet them.

I chose a handful of goals that I thought were important to an overall healthy me (and that were both realistic and measurable):

  • Spend at least 15 minutes a day doing something for myself
  • Join an exercise class 3 days a week and put them on my calendar
  • Drink 5 glasses of water a day
  • Make a meal plan with healthy options on it
Along with eating healthier I discovered alli® weight loss aid, the only FDA approved over-the-counter weight loss aid on the market. It works by blocking 25% of the fat you eat from being absorbed by your body. I feel I’m going to have success with this because it doesn’t claim to be a magical pill. You still have to exercise and take it along with a reduced-calorie and low fat diet, it just aids in weight loss for overweight adults. For every 5lbs – 10lbs you lose through diet and exercise (consult your doctor before beginning any exercise program), alli® weight loss aid can help you lose 2-3 more. Most people lose 5-10 pounds in 6 month period.*

After I figured out my goals I needed to overcome the “roadblocks” in my way, specifically time and motivation. Lack of time has seemed to be the biggest thing standing in my way. For years I worked full-time during the day, ran my kids around in the afternoon and evening and then blogged late at night. I had kept busier than I ever should have been. My days are open more now which means I can get to the gym during the day when my kids are at school. I’m signing up for a couple exercise classes that I can go to right after I drop the kids off. In the past, when I have had time to exercise and someone to watch the kids it was hard to get motivated to leave the house and get to the gym but this way I’ll already be out so I think that would fix the motivation issue. Also, having it on my calendar as a scheduled event means I’m more likely to go.

The next step was to make a plan for myself because I feel that if it’s not written down and planned for it won’t happen. I’ve come up with a plan that includes exercise, eating healthier, drinking more water and using alli® weight loss aid. I decided to use my planner to track health related things so I’d look at it throughout the day since it was in there along with my schedule and to-do list.

To start I scheduled in time to exercise and to eat. I know that sounds silly but when I get really busy I tend to skip meals and if it’s on my calendar it will remind me to eat. I created spaces to keep track of the water I’m drinking and that I took my alli® weight loss aid pills with my meals three times a day and my nightly multivitamin like recommended. When I drink the water or take my pill I can just shade in the circle next to each.

I also put my daily menu on my calendar sheet. I tend to wait until the last minute to figure out what’s for dinner and then choose something in a box that’s not too healthy. With a little planning I can make sure I have ingredients on hand and prep done for healthier meals. Since meals are so important while taking the alli® weight loss aid I want to have them planned out so I stay in their guidelines of meals that are well-balanced, reduced calorie and have no more than 15 grams of fat per meal. I found a lot of great meal ideas in the alli® Brand Startup Guide online at www.myalli.com. Not only are the meals healthy but they look delicious and filling, too!

I feel great going into the new school year. I have goals in mind, have overcome roadblocks in my way and have a plan in place to get healthier! Here is a “before” photo of me and I’ll post the “after” photo when I do the next update.

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*Disclaimer: alli® (orlistat 60 mg capsules) is for weight loss in overweight adults, 18 years and older, when used along with a reduced-calorie and low-fat diet. Follow label directions. In studies, most people lost 5-10 pounds over 6 months.

 

Comments

  1. I am right there with you as far as trying to get healthy again. Today was the first day I had gone back to the gym and I’m going to learn more about nutrition and try to make my eating decisions better too.

  2. Pam Wattenbarger says

    I tend to avoid being in pictures too, and I always have. I have a friend who used Alli and it really worked for her.

  3. There’s a large period of time where I’m not in man photos because I was so unhappy because I was overweight. Best of luck to you.

  4. It’s great that you are making yourself a priority and have a plan to becoming a healthier you. I like that you have made a daily schedule to help you along. I wish you success on this journey.

  5. Awww, that makes me sad that you won’t be in the pics, Alicia. Since I know you, I know that you’re amazing inside and out, but I hope this helps you feel better!

  6. I have been eating healthier and working out more this year. I have hit a plateau and would love to try alli. I look forward to your next update.

  7. It is so important to take care of yourself. I will have to look into trying alli. I have heard some great reviews on it.

  8. Sounds like a great plan! I need to do the same! Do you know if you can take this while breastfeeding?

  9. Getting healthy (as well as the maintenance) is very challenging, I know. There are so many bad habits that I have picked up over the years and I am (slowly) but surely trying to be a healthier person. Good on you for taking big steps to becoming healthier!

  10. Sounds like you’re off to a very healthy start. I think it’s so important to try to stay healthy. I’ve heard of the Alli products, but I’ve never tried them. I hope all goes well for you!

  11. Sounds like you are really on the right track! I know you can do this and will succeed!

  12. Sending good wishes for a great success! You’ve got a great plan which gives you a head start!

  13. It looks like you are really on the right track. I wish you much success! It can be so hard for us Moms to find time to take care of ourselves but it’s so important.

  14. Good for you! I am also starting new goals for a healthier me. The school year is the perfect time to start!

  15. I’m another one who is always behind the camera. I’m trying to get better about that – I don’t want it to look like I never did anything with my family when they look back at pictures in the future! I’ll be interested to hear how you like Alli after using it for a while.

  16. Same with us. My wife has made great progress in her healthy living, but I haven’t even really been trying and that is changing. Great to see other people making this change also!

  17. I first heard about these pills years ago, but I never met anyone who tried them. I will be following your story to see how they work for you.

  18. Can’t wait to see your journey. I know I have to be better for being in pictures. Good luck!

  19. Good luck on your new adventure! Losing weight is never easy, but with proper diet, exercise and attitude YOU CAN DO IT. I look forward to reading about your progress.

  20. I’m so proud of you. I have this same problem – all my pictures have me missing! I know this is hard to share and you’ve done a great job so far! Congrats

  21. Good luck lady!! Just take it one day at a time, you’ve got this :)

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